How much time do you spend on doing what you love each day? Do you consciously schedule time for your favorite things? Take a second to think about this. You may be surprised to find that a WHOLE day can go by without any *insert your name* play time. Now that is NOT a recipe for success!
I started thinking about this a couple of weeks ago after realizing that I’d been spending more time on my Facebook than on my bike. I had to ask myself if this time spent on Facebook (or some other time suck) was what I REALLY wanted to be doing. Let me tell you, it is not! I can think of a thousand things that will benefit me more than hours spent aimlessly perusing the internet or watching television. I felt I was wasting my time and if there’s one thing in this world I can’t stand, it’s time wasted; Time that could have been spent doing something valuable, meaningful, or at least really enjoyable!
So I started making some changes. John with HiLife2B inspired me to come up with some actual “habits”. Though I’m not huge on having a scheduled day, I’ve noticed that creating habits allows me to control what I do with my time instead of the reversal. I now make more time for exercise, meditation, reading, biking, walking, research, cooking, and board games. All the things I love to do. Substituting things you do for things you really ENJOY doing is the perfect kind of simplicity!
As far as my “habits” here is what I’ve come up with so far. Some of these habits I have already begun to implement, some are what I hope to start implementing. I’ll probably add some more as well, tweaking them as I go.
Habit 1: Ride my bike to places close by instead of driving
I’ve been riding my bike to places like Target, Publix, and the bank instead of driving my car and I love it. It feels like so much more of an adventure as I get to see new, smiling faces and friendly animal creatures along the way. There are hawks, rabbits, raccoons (possibly rabid), horses, and great blue herons out and about. I like to think it’s only a matter of time before I come across a bear or Florida panther or some other magnificent creature. That could also be just my imagination running. Regardless, it’s a lot more exciting than driving my car two miles down the road and back. Plus, it just feels good!
Habit 2: No internet until the sun goes down (unless it’s for a blogging purpose)
Yes, so about this one. It hasn’t been easy, that’s for sure, but I feel it is necessary to get more out of the daylight hours that I love so much. I have discovered that I am truly an email addict. It’s embarrassing to admit, because I know how silly it is to feel like you have to check your email all the time. I don’t actually believe something THAT important is going to pop up from the time I’ve left work, but I’m still compelled to check it. Then I start reading blogs, checking Facebook, google-ing random terms, looking people up on IMDB…..you get the picture. It steals my time and I shall not let it anymore!
Habit 3: Substitute Literature for Television
I am a reading fool. I’m always reading something and usually have both a non fiction and fiction book going on so that I’ll always have something I’m in the mood for. I’ve recently started reading even more;averaging about 2 hours a day I’d estimate. Now instead of that second episode of 30 Rock, I flip open a book and read. I feel like I gain so much more out of reading than watching t.v. and so I make a conscious effort to do less of one and more of another. Don’t get me wrong, comedies have their place of keeping up the laughter quotient, but small portions is key for me. I look forward to sharing some of my favorite books that others may be interested in picking up as well.
Habit 4: Sit down to a meal with Nature
I have a great backyard, filled with trees and birds and playful squirrels. I think it would be a shame to not take advantage of it and be tucked inside the house all the time. Therefore, I try to go out into Nature, by enjoying my meal on the back patio or if weather does not permit, allowing some of the outside to come inside by opening up the sliding door and sitting at the kitchen table. I look forward to many picnics in these warmer months as well!
Habit 5: Blog more!
I originally started this blog with the intention of vlog-ing (taking video footage), more than writing. That was until I realized my patience for people does not extend out to technology. I’ve decided that while I learn more about video editing, I’d like to keep sharing my thoughts and connecting with others. Therefore, I’ll be writing more in between posting videos. I’m looking forward to improving my writing skills, connecting with others, and learning more about many topics.
I hope that you will fill your days with what you truly love to do, whatever it may be. I also hope that one of your habits includes connecting with nature and sharing that connection with those you love.
If you have any tips for making time for what you love and spending less time on what you don’t, feel free to share!
Love,
Kristie